|Helping Children Cope with Disaster (ARC - FEMA-EMI, 1998, 4 p.)|
TORNADO - FLASH FLOOD - EARTHQUAKE - WINTER STORM - HURRICANE - FIRE - HAZARDOUS MATERIALS SPILL
Children may respond to disaster by demonstrating increased anxiety or emotional and behavioral problems. Some younger children may return to earlier behavior patterns, such as bed wetting and separation anxiety. Older children may react to physical and emotional disruptions with aggression or withdrawal. Even children who have only indirect contact with the disaster may have unresolved feelings.
In most cases, such responses are temporary. As time passes, symptoms usually ease. However, high winds, sirens or other reminders of the emotions associated with the disaster may cause anxiety to return.
Children imitate the way adults cope with emergencies. They can detect adults uncertainty and grief. Adults can make disasters less traumatic for children by maintaining a sense of control over the situation. The most assistance you can provide a child is to be calm, honest, and caring.
A Childs Reaction to Disaster by Age
Below are some common physical and emotional reactions in children after a disaster or traumatic event:
BIRTH TO 2 YEARS When children are pre - verbal and experience a trauma, they do not have the words to describe the event or their feelings. However, they can retain memories of particular sights, sounds, or smells. Infants may react to trauma by being irritable, crying more than usual, or wanting to be held and cuddled. As children get older, their play may involve acting out elements of the traumatic event that occurred several years in the past and was seemingly forgotten.
PRE SCHOOL2 TO 6 YEARS Pre school children often feel helpless and powerless in the face of an overwhelming event. Because of their age and small size, they lack the ability to protect themselves or others. As a result, they feel intense fear and insecurity. Preschoolers cannot grasp the concept of permanent loss. They see consequences as being reversible. In the weeks following a traumatic event, preschoolers play activities may involve aspects of the event. They may reenact the incident or the disaster over and over again.
SCHOOL AGE8 TO 10 YEARS The schoolage child has the ability to understand the permanence of loss. Some children become intensely preoccupied with the details of a traumatic event and want to talk about it continually. This preoccupation can interfere with the childs concentration at school and academic performance may decline. School - aged children may display a wide range of reactions guilt, feelings of failure, anger that the event was not prevented, or fantasies of playing rescuer.
PREADOLESCENCE TO ADOLESCENCE11 TO 18 YEARS As children grow older, their responses begin to resemble adults reaction to trauma. They combine some more childlike reactions with others that seem more consistent with adult reactions. Survival of trauma can be equated with a sense of immortality. A teenager may become involved in dangerous, risk - taking behavior, such as reckless driving or alcohol or drug use. In contrast, a teenager can become fearful of leaving home. Much of adolescence is focused on moving out into the world. After a trauma, the world can seem dangerous and unsafe. A teenager may feel overwhelmed by intense emotions, and yet feel unable to discuss them with relatives.
(Information courtesy of the American Red Cross and the University of Illinois)
Preparing for disaster helps everyone in the family accept the fact that disaster can happen, and provides an opportunity to identify and collect the resources needed to meet basic needs after disaster. Preparedness includes:
·Talking about damage that may be caused by disasters that can strike in your area of the
· Deciding on a number to call and a place where the family will reunite if separated by a disaster.
· Pulling together supplies of basic items: food, water, battery, radio, flashlight, etc.
· Selecting valued personal items for each member of the family to take if you are required to leave your home. For a child, such items may include a favorite toy, blanket or other item that the child uses as a source of comfort when upset.
· Safeguarding personal possessions with emotional importance such as photographs, family heirlooms, baby books, or other items that cant be replaced. Be sure to include one or two items that your child is especially proud of.
Meeting the Childs Emotional Needs
Children usually take their lead in a situation by reading the emotions of adults. Adults should share their true feelings about the incident, but maintain a sense of calm for the childs sense of well - being.
Listen to what the child is saying. If a young child is asking questions about the event, answer them simply without the elaboration needed for an older child or adult. If a child has difficulty expressing feelings, allow the child to draw a picture or tell a story of what happened.
Try to understand what is causing anxieties and fears. Be aware that following a disaster, children are most afraid that
· The event will happen again
· Someone will be killed
· They will be separated from the family
· They will be left alone
REASSURE CHILDREN WITH COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING. Suggestions to help:
· Hug and touch your children.
· Calmly and firmly provide factual information about the recent disaster.
· Encourage your children to talk about their feelings. Be honest about your own.
· Spend extra time with your children at bedtime.
· Re - establish a schedule for work, play, meals and rest.
· Involve your children by giving them specific chores to help them feel they are helping to restore family and community life.
· Encourage your children to help develop a family disaster plan.
· Make sure your children know what to do when they hear smoke detectors, fire alarms, and local community warning systems such as horns or sirens.
· Praise and recognize responsible behavior.
· Understand that your children will need to mourn their own losses.
Youve tried to create a reassuring environment. If your children do not respond when you follow the suggestions listed above, seek help from an appropriate professional such as the childs primary care physician, a mental health provider specializing in childrens needs or a member of the clergy.
Emergency Phone Numbers
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Teaching Your Children How to Call for Help
Teach children how and when to call for help. They should call 911 if you live in a 911 service area. If not, check the telephone directory for local emergency numbers.
Post the numbers near the telephone, clearly visible to children. Even very young children can learn how and when to call for emergency assistance.
If your child can read numbers but not words, the chart on this page has pictures that may help the child to find the right number to call.
As you explain each picture, have your child color the symbol on the chart. Doing so may help your child remember who to ask for in an emergency.
The Federal Emergency Management Agencys Community & Family Preparedness Program and the American Red Cross are engaged in nationwide efforts to help people prepare for disasters.
They provide the following additional publications on disaster preparedness:
· YOUR FAMILY DISASTER PLAN (FETA L191) (ARC 4466)
· EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS CHECKLIST (FETA L154) (ARC 4471)
· YOUR FAMILY DISASTER SUPPLIES KIT (FEMAL189) (ARC 4463)
· DISASTER PREPAREDNESS COLORING BOOK [ages 3 - 10] (FEMA243) (ARC 2200)
· ADVENTURES OF THE DISASTER DUDES [Video and Presenters Guide for use by an adult with children ages 9 - 11] (FEMA242) (ARC 5024)
For more information, please contact your local emergency management office or American Red Cross chapter. This brochure and other preparedness materials are available by calling FEMA at 18004802520, or writing:
P.O. BOX 2012
JESSUP, MD 20794 - 2012
or by visiting your local Red Cross chapter.
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