Findings
In the co-educational schools, we found much interest in sexual
matters and much sex-oriented activity. This was no different from what one
would expect in any coeducational secondary school in any country. The interest
of the research was to uncover the reasons why male behaviour in and around the
school went beyond the acceptable to the abusive, and in so doing turned the
school into a hostile and sometimes violent environment for girls. Even in the
single-sex school, the girls were not totally protected from abuse, as the
report shows.
In the mixed schools, although there were a few girls in the
sample who had seemingly happy relationships with boys, all too often
sex-oriented activity became abusive. This was because it usually entailed
unsolicited and intimidating male behaviour which continually violated the
girls' private space and not infrequently led to sexual assault. One set of
perpetrators were older male pupils, who would force themselves aggressively on
the younger girls' attention, accosting them in the corridors and grounds,
entering their classrooms uninvited and waiting for them in gangs after school.
They would try to touch them provocatively on the breasts or buttocks. They
would also propose to them, sometimes by sending them love letters; if they were
turned down, they would threaten the girls, shout abuse intended to demean and
humiliate them, and sometimes beat them. Money played an important part in these
demonstrations of male sexuality: they gave small gifts of money to girls or
bought them snacks, in an attempt to bribe them into a sexual liaison The second
set of perpetrators were male teachers who would abuse their position of trust
and authority to make sexual advances towards female pupils and attempt to lure
them into sexual relationships. This was widespread in the co-educational
schools studied, with advances made to young pupils in Form 1 as well as (more
commonly) to the older girls in the upper forms. Teachers would pursue their
prey often quite openly during classes, which suggests they had little fear of
being exposed. Teachers, like sugar daddies, used money and gifts as well as
insincere promises of marriage to entice girls.
Pupils and teachers alike appeared to see such behaviour,
whether by male teachers or male pupils, as an inevitable and 'natural' part of
school life. Like bullying in general, it was an institutionalised feature of
the school culture. This was not surprising given that the pattern of male
behaviour was little different to that found in the domestic and public domains.
For the majority of girls it was an unwanted part of their daily lives but, as
it was regarded as routine, nobody sought to change it.
This behaviour was abusive because it exploited the difference
of power between the perpetrator (whether male pupil or teacher) and the victim.
Even where it was of a relatively mild form, the fact that nobody sought to
control and punish it meant that it had the potential to rapidly become serious
abuse. Most importantly, the fact that male teachers pursued sexual liaisons
with girls with impunity passed on the message to boys that such behaviour was
acceptable. It made them not only bolder and more aggressive in their behaviour
towards girls but also increased their contempt for them.
Male pupils and teachers crowding in on girls' private space and
exploiting their position of strength to coerce them into sexual liaisons is a
manifestation of the school as a site of sexual violence for girls.
Verbal abuse, which was used by almost all teachers, male and female, and
corporal punishment, which was widespread in the mixed schools (and used on
girls and boys), were further manifestations of school-based violence. Girls
were beaten almost as much as boys, despite it being banned in the case of
girls. There was evidence that verbal abuse was used more frequently towards
girls and was specifically designed to denigrate and humiliate the female sex.
In the all-girls' school, verbal abuse was common (as if to compensate for the
ban on corporal punishment, which was strictly enforced there) and there was
some indication that a few male teachers might also behave inappropriately
towards girls.
Abuse in schools reflected abuse and violence in the
home. It was clear that a few girls were at risk of, or had experienced,
sexual abuse by relatives or neighbours but more common were beatings, excessive
domestic labour demands, neglect (lack of love, attention and respect) and
verbal abuse. One consequence of ill-treatment at home is that girls may be more
responsive to some boys' or adult men's attention out of unhappiness or fear,
and hence vulnerable to exploitation.
Girls were also exposed to abuse in the proximity of the school.
Male strangers would proposition or sometimes assault them at bus stops and in
market places, on the road to and from school, and while travelling on public
transport. Sugar daddies were known to frequent the area near the
schools. Girls in the single-sex school were also exposed to such abusive
behaviour; indeed, the location of the school in the town centre made them
particularly at risk.
It was difficult to obtain a true picture of how abusive sexual
relationships developed and to determine whether girls entered freely into them
or were coerced. We found that the distinction between an abusive and a
consensual relationship was often blurred. It was clear that not all the girls
were passive victims of unsolicited male attention and that some responded
positively to advances by older boys and even by teachers and sugar daddies. In
fact a surprisingly high number of girls were reported to have sugar daddies.
What appeared to be most likely was that girls would accept small gifts and
money from older boys and men, sometimes out of necessity, not realising that
this would be used at a later date to coerce them into having sex. In all these
cases, the relationship has to be condemned as abusive because the girl, whether
coerced or consenting, is being lured into an exploitative
relationship.